Today on my blog Stillborn and Still Breathing, I am advertising White Signs of Grief which is a Website I founded with my sister to help spread awareness about the grief and pain family members experience after the loss of a child. We started White Signs of Grief in an effort to give a voice and put a face to this type of grief and to let them share their words of advice. Below is the story of what drove me to start on this endeavor.
May peace find you,
Lindsey
After the death of my daughter to stillbirth, I was immersed in grief and
shock, but most of all, I felt alone. Your children are not supposed
to die before you; they are not supposed to die before they are even
born. I initially thought no one could understand my pain, but then the
sympathy cards came in and people started to reveal their own losses to
me. Losses that were kept secret. Losses I felt like I should have
known about. Miscarriages, late term pregnancy loss, stillbirth, SIDs,
cancer, playground accidents, drunk driving, and more.
Why did everyone keep their grief a secret, why didn't I know about
these childless mothers, fathers, grandparents, aunts, uncles, friends,
and family members? I decided I needed to see their faces, to connect,
to hear their advice, their words of truth about the pain and the
anguish, just as much as I wanted to hear their thoughts about hope and
love they still feel for their deceased child. That is why I started White Signs of Grief.
If you are a grieving mom, dad, grandparent, aunt, uncle, cousin,
sister, brother, friend, or other family member to a child that has died
too soon, please share your 'white sign of grief' with others at www.whitesignsofgrief.blogspot.com or e-mail your photo to whitesignsofgrief@gmail.com. You can also like us on Facebook I look
forward to seeing your face and your words of hope and truth about your
grief journey after child loss.
May your beloved child's spirit live on in some way and some form.
May peace find you,
Lindsey
Founder, Lindsey Henke
Nora's Mom
Stillborn at 40 weeks, 4 days pregnant
12/30/12
