tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591083597388311251.post3225339785180442609..comments2023-05-01T03:22:11.193-05:00Comments on Stillborn and Still Breathing: Moments of His GriefLindseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10699558213320159178noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591083597388311251.post-39572849399771447932013-05-15T21:23:12.777-05:002013-05-15T21:23:12.777-05:00These are great responses. I will have to use the...These are great responses. I will have to use them more often. I will let Nick know too. Thanks.Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699558213320159178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591083597388311251.post-12547157824409697622013-05-14T21:25:25.937-05:002013-05-14T21:25:25.937-05:00Nick's grief was hard to read, but I am reliev...Nick's grief was hard to read, but I am relieved that I am not the only one that has taken exception to the response 'it's okay'. It has taken me a while to say 'yeah--it sucks big time and it's not fair'. Not the most gracious, but very honest. I miss Nora too.Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591083597388311251.post-45943062602403385842013-05-14T20:16:19.355-05:002013-05-14T20:16:19.355-05:00I love it that this post is focused on Nick's ...I love it that this post is focused on Nick's grief; is he considering doing a spot for StillStanding? Chris was considering it, but it sounds like they've had lots of inquiries which may have "scared" him off. YES. I would love to be involved in the letter project. I'm so open to collaboration in any form; I think I feel more courageous when I'm working with others on a project. The Mother's Day project rocked my world! lol<br />I don't know how familiar you are with the RTZ movie, but Chris and I were sponsors (Ro's name will be in the credits). I just received an email about being a local advocate for the movie, and I'm seriously considering being added to the list. I'd need to get the word out locally and do some schmoozing to get it into local theaters. We have friends here in Newport that are connected through the town newspaper, and a really cool artsy theater, so I'm hoping they'll screen it. Well, anyway, I just stopped in to say, "Great post" and "Yes, you know I'll help/be involved in any way I can". I do not work outside the home, so I can be your assistant in any way... lol :) Hope you're having a great week!Tara Holmeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06134914230548308233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591083597388311251.post-66735100944990946252013-05-14T13:23:02.953-05:002013-05-14T13:23:02.953-05:00This is beautiful. The photo of him holding the ti...This is beautiful. The photo of him holding the tiny t shirt, so raw. <br /><br />I think we all start out saying,"it's ok," when someone asks... and we all come to that moment where the unfairness of it all becomes unbearable. <br /><br />That was when I began replying, "thank you." <br /><br />As in, "thank you for acknowledging that this loss is so profound,that you have no words for me." <br /><br />Or,<br /><br />"thank you for not attempting to fill the void with a stupid comment."<br /><br />Or, <br /><br />"thank you for missing our child with us, even if it was just for a moment."<br /><br /><br />I hope he keeps sharing his moments with you too. <br /><br />Sarah St. Ongehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01116679830244890405noreply@blogger.com